Notes from the road
Plain words about marriages where criticism and conflict became the norm — and about the clarity, stability, and choices that lead out of them.

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Why the most capable women stay the longest
The very strengths that built your career can keep you in the wrong relationship.
June 12, 2026

Rough Patch or Wrong Fit?
This is the classic situation in which men have a constant belief of being bad and having to apologize for everything. A sort of imposter syndrome.
May 27, 2026

Jimmy on relationships... sucks
Among the relationship authorities on YouTube, the one I totally disagree with is Jimmy on Relationships. Jimmy is this self-professed bad-husband who claims he saved his marriage by apologies
January 25, 2025

Fair play: no no
You may think that the justice system is just and fair and lying and bending the rules doesn’t work. Unfortunately, that’s not true.
October 12, 2024
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Divorcing from somebody else’s marriage
If a lawyer or a coach is promising you an amicable divorce, they’re probably talking about somebody else’s marriage. Probably they think it’s First Wives Club
September 25, 2024
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